Sunday, January 2, 2011

Post #50 - Day 53 - Saturday, January 1, 2011 - Happy Birthday Michael Cosentino

The mornings are tough for Bill due to the lack of sleep during the night. The number of times he gets up is about the same. The urine continues to show small signs of improvement. We got to the infusion center at 10:30am for our daily liter of saline. We had Robert for our nurse this morning. Robert is one of our favorite at the BMT. He is soft spoken, gentle, compassionate and friendly. Since Bill has been Robert's patient before, Robert anticipates Bill's needs and brings the items that he knows Bill will request. Kudos to Robert!!!

The pain in the abdomen that Bill had the last few days seems to be gas. Now that he is eating a little his bowels are getting a work out. We will continue to monitor the pains for any changes.

This morning, Sunday, Bill mentioned that the sores in his mouth are not improving with the increased dose of Famvir. It seems they are coming back instead of getting better. If this continues he will not be able to eat again. We will discuss this with the nurse at the clinic this morning.

I try my hardest to make each post meaningful, informative and clear. Sometimes what I write is clear to me, but conveys a different message to the reader. My last post discussed the results of the bone marrow biopsy, that the test could not detect the disease. (I have edited the post to be less confusing). Although this is positive news, it does not mean the journey is over. The word "CURED" has not been used yet. We still have a very long road ahead of us. Bill has a minimum of another 46 days that he needs to remain in Tampa. The reason this is required is his immune system is young and immature the therefore his body is susceptible to various infections; viral, fungal, Bacterial. Bill has already had two viral infections and a touch of GVHD in his stomach. As you have read with the last fever, the BMT take them very serious. A fever that goes undetected, and untreated could be fatal. We take Bill's temperature at home several times a day. Once Bill is discharged from living in Tampa (day 100 we hope) he will still be under heavy precautions. He will need to avoid public settings, crowds, continue the food restrictions and stay away from anyone that has a cold or was near someone that had a cold. He will need to avoid anyone that has had a live vaccine for 6 weeks. We will require anyone that enters our home to use hand sanitizer and remove their shoes. He will continue to see the doctor in Titusville weekly and visit Moffitt on a regular basis. The one year mark is the first real milestone that we can truly celebrate and we will. The bone marrow biopsy done then will be a better indication of the future.

There are a few links to blogs by others, Under other TPLL blogs, that have had Bill's disease and are still on their journey. Max (TPLL support net) is in approximately month 15 post transplant and is doing great. His doctor just released him to travel from Buffalo to Florida, congrats to Max; and to Shirley for being a great caregiver. I can speak first hand and say that she had her work cut out for her and she did a great job. Mark (Curing Vancura) is in the second part of his first year post transplant. A month ago he spent a month in the hospital with pneumonia. The doctors have asked his sister to harvest more stem cells for a possible second transplant. We wish Mark well in this new year and nothing more than health and progress towards a non hospital/clinic existence. Please feel free to click on those links and read their blogs.

We are on the road to recovery, but as our doctor has said many times, "you will hit many bumps in the road and we will deal with each one as we hit them". We continue to stay positive and do what we are told to ensure that Bill continues on this positive journey.

Thanks for reading and please do provide feedback if something is not clear.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Mike, I smiled when I read your compliment to me as Max's Caregiver. I was just thinking what an awesome job YOU have done! Your posts are very detailed and I know first hand how difficult it can be to keep everyone (of varying levels of understanding) up to date. You are an AMAZING Caregiver and Advocate for Bill - He is so blessed to have you by his side for this most difficult journey.

Bill has certainly had some rough times and a lot of bumps along the road, but better days are on the horizon in 2011. So keep up the good work, keep smiling and know that the best is yet to come. Take baby steps and celebrate all the mini milestones along the way (like iPads and cannolli!)

Max & I are always just a SKYPE or phone call away if you ever need to chat and we do plan to be in touch when we are in FL.

In our thoughts and prayers,

Max & Shirley

William said...

Speaking of caregiver, Mike is a blessing to us(immediate family) and Dad. I was there for one day to relieve Mike and wow, what a job it is to keep up with all the day-to-day stuff. Mike's diligence is incredible, keeping the nurses on their toes, taking notes of every single thing that goes on, and on top of Dad to keep him going. Thanks Mike for all you do!!!!

Nancy & Gang (P, H, A) said...

I'm calling a paving company....
We want smoother roads!

Keep fighting... both of you.
Love and miss you!